A Guard Encounter, Too Much is BAD!

Two days ago (October 5th) about at this time, I went up bought shoes stuffs and some others more I need for my "balikbayan box" for my extended immediate family. Yes, I bought brand new for them and besides my DH gave me more than a half of its amount and said to just buy and I ended up adding more though some for my other three close paternal cousins were not able to load up in the jumbo box (box from Wells Cargo Express). On my way going to the shoes store, it's a bit dark on the other side which I had to passed-by before I can go on to the store. Since I saw a guy, yes, I doubt first if he's a guy or a guard. But then I knew more that he is a night guard of such commercial buildings, I just want to know at least 95%. Oops! Yep, so I called him and said "guard".. and so he replied and then found-out he really is, so I felt relax. After a couple of statements, I then knew he also came from my birth country but that's all about it. Ahh.. he followed me on the show store, perhaps he just want to have some "chitchat".. or maybe because am good with him, he may felt something, eh??? He talked to me even at store but then I don't entertained him much because the store was about to close, okay at 7 p.m. . And so to make the story short, he still followed me.. ooh well, he's a guard.. but oops he wanted to carry my shoes' bags.. but nope I told, my husband is waiting for me I don't want to be misunderstood. I have to be frank or else he may think, I am too good. Err.. most of the times, when we are being good with other (especially to the rank and file) they may think, we have some feeling, hello??? Are they fine, so we have to frank and sometimes we also have to be strict or just don't talk. Okay, that's only sometimes but be sure to be frank when time calls or else such person may think something. Errr!